My girlfriend and I actually had this epiphany when someone asked us both the same question (different time and place) as to why we like this person. Her answer "he has good work ethic" lmao dont kill me and my answer was "because there's no reason not to". If our guys heard us say that in front of them it would break their hearts. It's not much of the warm and fuzzies you would want your partner to say nor hear from. So the real question is ....is there really a good answer? I explored my emotions and reasons as to why I like him. I can't really pin point to say that he does this for me, or he makes feel like this, or he bought me this etc. It's not much what I'm looking for in a partner and I can say those warm and fuzzies of giving me butterflies and making me feel warm at night is not enough. I'm not leaning towards a partner providing me with financial security (to an extent) but also not looking for the emotion of making me feel whole. I'm currently still working on getting to find my own happiness so the last thing I need is to find someone to make me happy for me to feel complete. But I guess my answer as to why I like him is not currently defined right now but it's enough to say he got my attention for the time being and I suppose the real answers will be ready when we're ready for the real questions.
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