So I went out to happy hour Friday at my favorite happy hour spot. I'm pretty much a regular there but regular to me is every other month it seems like. Actually I haven't gone lately because I was dating someone for a couple of months. Matter of fact it may be my favorite spot for the fact I meet a lot of guys there. It's so hard to mix leisure with pleasure but hey he was an exception and only exception because obviously what we had didn't last and I know I will see his ass there again. Ugh I already had this dreaded feeling Friday that I may run into his ass. Thank God it didn't happen.....yet I know it's only a matter of time. Anyways I planned on meeting my male friend up there but he was running late. I refuse to miss happy hour so I went there waiting for him alone. I walked around the bar looking for a seat and it happened to be next to an attractive guy. This was my perspective from the back because all I saw was muscles and a nice shiny bald head. As I tapped him twice with no response I said "excuse me is this seat taken" he said "no help yourself, it's all you." We both had a big smile and that was it. The moment I sat down to get adjusted the women from across the bar was looking right at us..maybe more at me as if I planned to make a bold move. I suppose they were checking him out and I really didn't look at him, look at him. Anyways my drank came in and his conversation kept flowing. I even talked to his older gentlemen to my left who was from Denmark and my ignorant ass had no clue Denmark was a country lmao. I thought it was somewhere in Oregon under my Bud light buzz lmao. Anyways I'm cool, things were cool and he was starting to look more attractive just based on our conversation. He was asking all the right questions actually very detailed personal questions like boyfriend, age....especially when I didn't get that vibe he was interested maybe I didn't give that vibe either. Either way it was a genuine conversation. And to top it all he was mixed with Filipino just like me. I was in awwh. Cuz it's just very rare and knowing he's mixed with the same race just opened a new window of really getting to know this guy. I'm thinking man something could really hit off here. But I stopped myself. I didn't want to jump the gun of getting excited and getting my hopes up etc. I been down this route before and I just don't want to be labeled as the happy hour hooch. But I did have a nice conversation with him and he did ask for my number. To be continued.....(I know I said no boys in my last blog but he will be a future platonic friend) Anyways after that another woman took his seat and sat next to me. My friend finally came by and he automatically started flirting with her. She whined up telling us her whole life story which comes to find out she's older 42 to be exact. She said something that struck me and I took her comment seriously. When she told us her age we were shocked and complimented her and she said she had her daughter who is now 3 years old. She never thought in her life that she would bare a child but she did wish she had done all the things she wanted to do before she was born. She thought she had all the time she needed to do the things she wanted and pooop here comes a baby. To her that's all her blessings now but for a random stranger to share that with us (mainly me) was my confirmation.
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