This is part two from when I met the gal at the bar. Reference back to "Hair talk". So the gal I met at the bar was filling me on on how she's meeting with her ex husband's current wife and his jump off. Yes please, read again for clarification. According to her, she and the ex's wife are friends. Well they get along. So from what I get the husband has been cheating on the current wife with another woman who happens to carry his child. The wife is still with her husband so obviously they are working it out. So now that the child is now 2, they are all planning to meet to discuss how they can work as a family because the husband has taken full responsibility for the child. YES, you read it correctly......Ok now that I stated the facts let me tell you my observation from this mess as I side eye her. So the gal was telling me this as a gossip tip because she can't fathom it either but since she's trying to support her "friend" she's going to be there. The gal does have an older daughter from her ex husband so I can see how she's still in the mix. The current wife has two kids from her husband as well and I believe they're still young under 5. So now that the jump off's kid is now 2 they figured they need to get to know their brothers and sisters. This is the first time meeting the woman in person and meeting the kid for the first time. All I had to do was kept drinking my beer and listen as this story unfolded so entertainingly. The current wife walks through the door. She's attractive actually both ladies are attractive, I say late 20's early 30's. They seem very mature, got off from work attire. They were definitely far off from Jerry Springer category. The gal introduced us. I didn't care to be introduced but why not. They both sat to my right as I kinda kept to myself "minding my business". All I could hear from the side of my ear, is she's already an hr. late .....then the wife started, saying how she be praised for being the bigger person and making the effort.....I'm sitting here like this chick doesn't owe her anything. Then I started to look at her as she started whining and I slowly started to lose respect. I don't know. Just the whole mess threw me off but then she started hating on the other chick as if she the victim for trying to do right. I was getting buzzed and annoyed by the nonsense and then the gal was just egging her on about how this chick should be appreciating her and taking her child in and being the bigger person. WTF! They were starting to sound bitter and upset for the fact this chick stood both of them up like a fool. A few minutes goes by and the jump off chick walks in with her son and they call got up with fake smiles, as I watched them react. I looked at the other chick and I can say both of them did have one up on looks. I'm sorry ,yall know chicks measure like that. But the real measure is she still got her man lmao! That's wrong, my bad. They said their goodbyes to me and the gal asked for my number so we can meet up again. In my head, the hell we won't. I'm not trying to affiliate drama like that lol. Anyways so I got to thinking dam three chicks been with this dude and they all seem to support and condone what he's been done to them and yet they all manage to work it out for the sake of the kids. I'm not sure how healthy this can be, but if I was his kid, I'm sure dam confused as to what Daddy is doing. Oh well to each is own, I guess there's a reward for being the bigger person or is it a fool and his gold shall soon be departed?
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